About

About Ally — Counselling & Psychotherapy at Awaken Discovery

Supporting emotional wellbeing, anxiety, burnout, self-understanding, healing and reconnection through compassionate therapeutic support.

Ally in session with a client — sitting on a sofa in her warm, plant-filled therapy room

Meet Ally

Hello, I'm Ally — founder of Awaken Discovery.

Before becoming a counsellor and psychotherapist, I spent twenty-five years working as a teacher within education, supporting young people, families, and colleagues through the emotional pressures and challenges that life can bring. Over time, I found myself increasingly drawn toward understanding the deeper emotional experiences that often sit quietly beneath anxiety, overwhelm, burnout, and the constant pressure many people place upon themselves simply to keep going.

Today, I work with adults, couples, and young people who may feel emotionally exhausted, anxious, disconnected from themselves, or lost beneath the weight of trying to hold everything together for everyone else.

Therapy with me is not about being judged, fixed or told what to do. It is about creating space — to pause, breathe, reflect, and begin reconnecting with who you are beneath the survival mode.

My approach

Four threads that run through every session.

  • Integrative & humanistic

    Therapy tailored to you as a whole person — not a one-size-fits-all method or diagnosis.

  • Nervous-system aware

    Holding the connection between emotions, mind, body and the way stress has been carried.

  • Relational & gentle

    Compassionate, collaborative work paced carefully around what feels safe for you.

  • Human, not clinical

    A space to pause, exhale and be heard — not judged, fixed or rushed.

Healing begins not through pressure or perfection, but through feeling emotionally safe enough to be fully heard, understood and accepted as you are.

— Ally

Learn more about Ally

A longer story — read at your own pace.

If you'd like a fuller sense of who I am and how I work, the chapters below open one at a time. Read what feels relevant. Skip what doesn't.

  1. 01Twenty-five years in educationHow my path into therapy began alongside young people, families and colleagues.

    Before training as a counsellor and psychotherapist, I spent twenty-five years working as a teacher within education. During that time, I supported young people, families, and colleagues through increasingly demanding emotional, personal, and professional challenges.

    What stayed with me most throughout those years was not simply how much people were coping with — but how often they were coping alone.

  2. 02What I noticed beneath the copingFunctioning outwardly while struggling internally is far more common than most realise.

    Again and again, I saw people continuing to function outwardly whilst internally feeling anxious, emotionally overwhelmed, mentally exhausted, disconnected from themselves, or unsure how much longer they could continue carrying the pressure they were under.

    Many had become so used to surviving within stress, responsibility, caring roles, or constant expectation that they no longer recognised how deeply it was affecting their wellbeing, relationships, confidence, identity, and nervous system over time.

    This deeper understanding of human emotional experience became one of the reasons I felt drawn toward counselling and psychotherapy.

  3. 03How I work — integrative & humanisticTherapy that begins with you as a whole person, not a model or diagnosis.

    My work today is grounded in an integrative humanistic approach, which means I see every person as entirely unique. Rather than believing people should fit neatly into a particular model or diagnosis, I begin with understanding the individual sitting in front of me — their experiences, emotions, relationships, history, and the ways life has shaped how they move through the world.

    I work relationally, compassionately, and collaboratively. Therapy with me is not about judgement, fixing, or being told how you should think or feel. It is about creating a space where you can safely slow down, breathe, reflect, untangle what has been building internally, and begin reconnecting with yourself more gently and honestly.

  4. 04The nervous system, mind & bodyWhy anxiety, burnout and overthinking are signs of a system carrying too much.

    Alongside my therapeutic training, I hold a strong interest in the connection between emotional wellbeing, the nervous system, mind, and body. Often, anxiety, burnout, emotional exhaustion, overthinking, or feeling constantly “on alert” are not signs that something is wrong with you — but signs that your system has been carrying too much for too long.

    Many people I work with describe feeling disconnected from themselves beneath years of pressure, responsibility, people-pleasing, caring for others, or constantly trying to hold everything together. Therapy offers an opportunity to begin understanding these patterns with compassion rather than criticism.

    Through both professional experience and personal understanding of anxiety and stress, I recognise how difficult life can feel when the nervous system rarely has the opportunity to fully rest.

  5. 05Who I work withAdults, couples and young people — including those who quietly support everyone else.

    My approach is gentle, grounded, reflective, and emotionally attuned. I believe healing begins not through pressure or perfection, but through feeling emotionally safe enough to be fully heard, understood, and accepted as you are.

    Alongside supporting adults, couples, and young people more broadly, my background within education gives me a particular understanding of the emotional pressures experienced by teachers, helping professionals, carers, and those who spend much of their lives supporting everyone else whilst quietly neglecting themselves.

  6. 06Why Awaken Discovery existsA space to pause, in a world that asks us to keep performing.

    Awaken Discovery was created from a desire to offer something more human within a world that often asks people to keep performing, coping, and pushing through regardless of how disconnected or exhausted they may feel inside.

    I wanted to create a space where people could pause. A space where they no longer had to carry everything alone.

  7. 07What working together may feel likeCollaborative, paced around you, and above all — human.

    Therapy sessions with me are collaborative, supportive, reflective, and paced carefully around you. There is no expectation to explain yourself perfectly, have all the answers, or arrive knowing exactly where to begin.

    Sometimes therapy may involve gently exploring emotions, patterns, relationships, anxiety, self-doubt, or experiences that have been difficult to process alone. At other times, it may simply involve having a space where you can finally exhale, speak honestly, and feel heard without pressure or judgement.

    Above all, I believe therapy should feel human.

Qualifications & professional development

Training, memberships and continuing study.

Therapy is a craft that keeps unfolding. Below are the qualifications, memberships and accreditations that underpin my practice — alongside ongoing CPD and reading.

  • Qualifications
    • Master of Arts in Counselling —York St John University
    • Counselling Skills Levels 1, 2 and 3 —Focus Counselling Training
    • Post-graduate Certificate in Education & Educational Leadership — De Montfort / Leicester University
    • BSc (Hons) Environmental Science (Monitoring & Management) — Nene College, Leicester University
  • Memberships & accreditation

    BACP registered (MBACP) and NCPS. Practice held in line with the BACP and NCPS Ethical Frameworks.

    • BACP Registered Member 392865 — MBACP, Professional Standards Authority accredited register
    • NCPS Accredited Registrant MNCPS (Acc.) — Professional Standards Authority accredited register
    • Online & Telephone Counselling Certified Counsellor
  • Areas of focus & specialisms

    Alongside ongoing reading and continuing professional development, the areas listed below are those I most commonly work with — though my experience extends beyond them. If something you're carrying isn't here, please feel free to ask.

    Anxiety & emotional overwhelm

    Anxiety · panic attacks · health anxiety · social anxiety · generalised anxiety · stress · work-related stress · burnout · low mood · depression · seasonal affective disorder.

    Trauma & past experiences

    Trauma · PTSD · dissociation · childhood and family experiences · emotional, physical, sexual and domestic abuse · bullying · attachment.

    Relationships & life transitions

    Relationship difficulties · communication and connection · separation and divorce · affairs and betrayals · bereavement · pregnancy, birth and postnatal experiences · miscarriage · redundancy · carer support.

    Identity, self-worth & the self

    Self-esteem and self-confidence · loneliness · LGBTQ+ support · gender identity · neurodiversity · learning differences · self-harm and difficult thoughts · self-discovery and personal growth.

    Teachers, helping professionals & young carers

    Teacher burnout · classroom anxiety · educator wellbeing · supporting young carers · caring-role exhaustion · the pressures of holding everything together for everyone else.

  • Safeguarding & experience

    DBS checked. Alongside private practice, Associate Counsellor at Hull and East Yorkshire Mind and Wellbeing Solutions, and previously a counsellor at Selby College and York St John Communities Centre. Principal Examiner at AIM Qualifications and Assessment Group, with over twenty-five years supporting students, colleagues and families within education.

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Begin your journey

Reaching out can feel difficult — you don't have to do it alone.

Especially when you've been carrying things alone for a long time, the idea of beginning therapy can feel daunting. If you'd like to explore whether working together feels right for you, you are warmly welcome to arrange a free initial consultation.

Whatever you're carrying, you are warmly welcome here.